When does a boy become a man?
What does it mean to be a man?
Who is going to tell him?
These aren’t rhetorical questions. Every boy is already asking them — whether he knows it or not. And in a world that has no good answers, the noise and lies are doing damage.
Finding Virtue is a complete, biblically-grounded program for fathers who want to lead their sons to a relationship with Christ, to understand their true identities, and into the manhood God has designed for them.
Twelve virtues. A cohort of trusted men. And a coming-of-age ceremony where a father stands before his son, his community, and his God and declares:
You are a man.
Finding Virtue is your guide.
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Psalm 119:9
“How can a young man keep his way pure? By guarding it according to your word.”
Twelve Virtues
Twelve Virtues. Twelve Adventures. A Christ-centered foundation for a lifetime.
One virtue at a time, each taught on a day set apart — just a father, his son, and a trusted cohort of men. Each Virtue Day builds toward the moment when everything comes together in The Calling ceremony.
ILove
IIPatience
IIIGrace
IVJoy
VCompassion
VICourage
VIIDiscipline
VIIIRighteousness
IXIntegrity
XPurity
XIHumility
XIIPeace
“Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.”
Proverbs22:6
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The Books
Finding Virtue
The complete program in one book. Everything a father needs to lead his son through twelve virtues, build a cohort of trusted men, plan each Virtue Day, and conduct The Calling — the coming-of-age ceremony that marks the moment a boy steps into manhood. If this is the only book you buy, you have everything you need.
Father's Field Guide
The hands-on companion for dads who want to go deeper. Additional Virtue Day planning tools, prayer guides, space to capture notes and memories, and extra teaching support for each virtue. Not required — but a great way to make the experience even better.
Son's Field Guide
Your son's own companion through the program. His copy to read, mark up, take notes in, and keep forever. Each virtue has space for him to engage with the teaching, record the adventure, and carry the memory of every Virtue Day. A keepsake he will have for the rest of his life.
Resources, Community and Support
- Online bootcamps for individual dads walking through the program with coaching, community, and Q&A support
- A full Chapter model for churches, schools, and organizations — complete with training, collateral, and materials to bring Finding Virtue to your community
- Community support connecting fathers and families on the Finding Virtue journey
- Additional virtue teachings, resources, and guides to go deeper into the program
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“Be watchful, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong.”
1 Corinthians16:13